I have learned to choose my battles. I learn this almost daily....
I don't care how the dishwasher is filled, just do it.
I don't care how the towels are folded, just do it.
I don't care how you fold your clothes, socks, underwear, just do it.
I don't care how you clean up the mess you made....anywhere... just do it.
I used to think everything had to be done a certain way, because that's what I was taught. I stress & get overwhelmed on how things are done. There are no set in stone rules people!!!
LET IT GO. BE FREE OF THIS!!
I have let soo much go with my kids & let them learn HOW to do things on their own & it's been amazing. Of course, I still stress over things but I let them ask for help...most of the time lol